Origins of
the Bar Lazy W

Cowboys, Horses & Dreams
There were some very distinct
advantages to growing up in the 1950's and early 1960's. As kids during that
time, we saw the birth of rock and roll, the beginning of space exploration,
major medical advances like the serum for polio and the beginning of social
changes that are still evolving today.
That was also the time period that
came to be known as the "golden age" of the cowboy. No, not the
historical cowboys - those men who drove the great herds north out of
The first television to appear in our
neighbourhood belonged to a family up the street. It
was in that family’s living room that all the local kids would gather to see
the next episode of "
Time passed and we all grew older.
The cowboy faded into the background as other priorities shaped our lives.
School, careers, adult responsibilities and new interests took our attention.
Nevertheless for some of us, the cowboys of our childhood never totally
relinquished their hold on our imaginations - true friends who refused to be
forgotten.
We continued to watch the old movies
on TV and although
They say that life is a series of
"defining moments" - events, which in some way cause major
alterations in our lives and open doors into new experiences and interests.
Sometimes these events can also serve to reconnect threads from our past -
somehow picking up a direction which appeared to have been lost in the passage
of time. For my wife and I such an event occurred some
years back when we went to north-eastern
Although we were on what has come to
be known as a "slicker drive", it was nevertheless a working ranch -
no swimming pool, no sauna and no guest lodge here. We slept on the ground, ate
from a chuck wagon and spent nine hours a day in the saddle moving cattle
across some of the most rugged and beautiful country you could imagine. We got
dirty, we got sore, we got bone tired and it was wonderful.
Side by side we rode with men and
women "born to the saddle" - third generation ranch folk, dedicated
to cattle, horses and the land. They were everything we believed cowboys to be
- hard working, self sufficient, proud and, in some ways, very private people.
All of our childhood fantasies and images of the cowboy life materialized
around us. Horses, cows, dust, the sounds of moving cattle, jingling spurs,
whistling ropes, pounding hooves, the relentless landscape and those stoic men
and women, sitting tall in the saddle, with their eyes fixed firmly on the
horizon.
Yes, it was
Watching those cowboys ride we were
so envious of their horsemanship, the easy way they sat in the saddle and the
way their horses responded to the most imperceptible cues. Horse and rider,
moving as one, relaxed, confident, making it look so
easy and natural. We wanted to learn to do that, to ride with that same level
of finesse and confidence.
And so, here we are today, still
living the cowboy fantasy but with one major difference. Our lives now include
our two Quarter Horses, Champ and Annie (see if you western trivia buffs can
guess the origin of those names). They have opened up a whole new world for us
while at the same time linking us to something we only dreamed about as
youngsters. We spend as much time with them as we can and with riding lessons
our skills and confidence continue to improve. Showing and competition don't
hold much allure for us - we are content to hack and explore the trails,
enjoying our connection with a culture, which while we were not born to it,
comes alive for us through our horses.
More than forty years ago, as
children, we basked in the glow of TV and movie screens which came alive with
the images of cowboys and great horses as we dreamed of riding with our heroes.
Today we can ride down a quiet country road on our own horses, our boots
planted firmly in the stirrups and cowboy hats pulled low. Rocked by the rhythm
of the four beat gait, lulled by the squeak of leather and the sound of the
horses' footfalls we smile, knowing that something once almost lost has been
found again - knowing that in some way Roy and Gene and the others are riding
right along beside us.
The dream has evolved into the
combination of reality and reflection that is the Bar Lazy W.
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